Monday, December 19, 2011

1st: Dating

I'm learning some aspects about 1st dating...this year alone I've been on a few which is cool but it's a process that I've noticed and I want to share what I've noticed.

Simplistic Approach

Search or be found: you search for or you're found, OR you flirt in whatever scene you're in and you find the connection.

Dating (1): you're suppose to be yourself, though in certain cases you are putting your best foot out there 1st, meaning that you're putting what you deem as your best qualities out there in hopes that the person you are currently attracted to will become more attracted to you. If you do dating sites, you get the spill of stating your "likes and dislikes" and if you're a person like me, I know what I like more than what i dislike and the dislikes usually occur during the process of me getting to know the individual more personally than just a "1st date"...Sooo, for the most part I don't like the statement "What are your likes and dislikes?"...it's soo soo vague. I would tell people that dating sites are cool, just be careful and go on there knowing what you want to do, be it flirting, dating or whatever...know what you want and that covers the process of dating in general.

Dating (2): This type of dating has surpassed "Dating (1)" because you know the individual more personally, I.e. you may have know them previously or you're friends and you both have found an interest there...this type dating can be cool to a degree. Reason being, you have to distinguish your feelings and become aware of rather or not you should remain friends or take it to the next level. I personally believe that friendships are important and if you realize that you have negatives that arise if you all were to move further, back-back and keep the friendship. I've realized with this type ordeal, realization comes thru consistent communication and conversation that is centered around both knowing what they want, which is essentially a relationship. As time progresses the tides can roll in different directions but it's up to both individuals to be aware of the action that comes with the tides which may yield a relationship or continues to develop & keep the friendship.

So, dating "I've found" has unique processes and observations to take note of. But throughout the whole dating scheme enjoy it and have fun!! It's an opportunity for you to relate to and get to know other people and in turn you definitely will get to know yourself. Psychologically, emotionally and spiritually we all are relational beings that require interaction. From the dating perspective, the interactions can yield a relationship, friendship or neither. Moreover, that is ok, it's apart of the process of life, really coming into a true understanding of what you "like and dislike" LOL!! But it's true...Enjoy life and the people in it. Take Care!!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Recap...

Morning!!!

I just posted on facebook this thought that came to mind as I read, "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. Check this out: "keep imaging greater...never lose your imagination...your image of greater...remember this: your thoughts become things...thinking wisely my friends, think wisely..." This right here is so true. I believe that some of us give up mentally our dreams and lose the desire (fuel to attain) to get, achieve, pursue and do what we dream of doing, fulfilling our purpose in life. Likewise, I just want to encourage you to keep dreaming and starting planning for what and where you want to go and be in this life...Like I have mentioned in the past posts, God has placed in us everything we need to be "holistically successful" in this life. We have in us the ability/power to have wealth, prosperity, great health and ultimately a wonderful life. Our God given talents and abilities should be used for the glory of God and it will also bring you blessings in return...I hear a lot of people say that your gift will make room for you and that accompanied with a dream equals a world of infinite possibilities.

Take courage my friends, take heart...There is a blessing in dreaming, there is a blessing in you being you...Be used by God on today and keep dreaming and accompany that with effective planning and allow God to manage the details and manifest the results...Keep moving forward towards the call on your life...You've dreamed it, now pursue it!! God Bless!!

-TVCM-

http://www.thinkgrowrich.com/

Monday, September 12, 2011

Learning...

Hi All!!! Some major events or better yet "happenings" have occurred (currently occurring) in my life since the last blog. Positively enough, the events have been centered around my success or better said the future of my success. I got a job offer, with my company, same pay and different location. Oddly enough, I was offered it by way of my work ethic during my internship. The recommendation in and of itself is a blessing, so to say that success is around the corner is definitely a true statement. Doors are opening all around, though you have to see what is best for you, that's why we have God in whom we can pray to and ask for direction on which way to go and better yet if you should go...I also have noticed that ways have already been made, the only thing you have to do is go in the way presented. Sometimes in the way you have or are granted, it avails you to certain liberties in which you can ask or request for things to be as such as work best for you, as you see fit...Those liberties are so awesome and it is a benefit in being a child of the "Most High God" (as the saints of old would say, LOL!!!). The Bible did mention that we can ask what we will in Jesus name and it will be given to us, therefore, if you ask good of God and or seek good that is what you will receive. Likewise, in the process of receiving that is a time where one must use patience as a power (virtue=power) or they must develop it in there on lives...either way, you have to use it or have it in order to receive from God...PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!!

Also, in my learning process, I've come to realize that success is synonymous to humility. This was my post on facebook this past Saturday: "Every successful person must have a distinct level of humility...not from the outside, but from within....humility is synonymous to success and vice versa". As you humble yourself to God, firstly that humility will be shown to everyone around  you, reason being because it is being done to God first. In the Bible, humility and the rise to success go hand in hand; 2 Peter 5:5-7 reads as follows: "Humble yourself therefore under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time..." #Baam that is all she wrote...#Curtains Humility, my friends, is an action that you must do 'YOURSELF' and after you do that the other rising thereof, that we all desire and want, will follow..It will in turn be done in the right way, God's way!!! So, over the course of this weekend, I dealt with a lot of mental anguish, which stemmed from me (in a nutshell) trying to figure it all out myself and do it my own way, with my limited logic and definite limited resources...Can we say, #SYSTEMFAILED, #MISSIONABORTED #IMMEDIATELY!!! I had no peace whatsoever, not a good mental feeling, especially when you're starting to get used to being on the up and up, the positives at all times (good thoughts and vibrations-->every moment and day). Definitely, not a fan of being negative and that also my friend is a growing/learning process to consistently go through, by way of changing your mind to remain and be consistent in positive thoughts/vibes/feelings, while understanding the nature of your 'opposite' surroundings. It is a task, but somebody has to do it....and by golly, that will be ME!!

Anywho, I digress, we were speaking on humility and my past weekend experience. I was presented with the offer I mentioned earlier, on last week. It was a shocker and yet it was amazing. But alas, my humanistic (not divine) self went on a mental tangent and my body pursued to follow it down a long, stressful and worrisome hill of bad/negative energy, a pull totally to the negative end of the law of vibration, attraction, faith magnet (LOLOL)!! Seriously, it was rough; I was indecisive and I had just (a couple of days back) read and also heard Bob Proctor talk about making decisions, sound decisions, with ease. My issue on the whole move was with money. I did not have enough saved up to move like I wanted to, in an easy manner. But, in my mind I'm developing in which it says or better yet re-verbs Bob Proctor's teaching  which is that "Once you have made the conscious decision that you  are going to do something, matters not if you have the money/resources or not, by the law of attraction (faith), it will come to you. All you need to do is make a decision...Everything else will fall in line..The details aren't for you, leave that to God"...Thinking about what I just typed is reminding me even more what I have to continue walking and doing...By this end, positive, successful, blissful, blessed etc etc results will soon follow. SIDEBAR--You maybe tempted to ask me, how in the world can this be true, let me tell you how, it (faith) work for me. Its been about a month since I had my car. Initially, I had saved up a good amount of money for a down payment (but not enough in the same instance), consequently, I was confused (indecisive) about the type of car I wanted. Also, I was very desperate, I initially 'needed' my car and then as I was reading The Secret, I was told to focus on 'wanting' rather than 'needing', because needing insinuates negative views/approaches/energies and that, that you put into repetition, that is what you receive, 'needing' this, that and the third... So, I changed my desire from needing to wanting (a mental decision) and I begin to ask God for realistic/believable requests in relation to my car. I mentioned the latter because, some of us, ask God randomly for stuff in which we "really" don't believe we He can do or get for us; its the self (needy) aspect of us speaking instead of the spirit in who knows what is needed and also recognizes the wants. Likewise, in my current situation, I believed God for my requests and He answered them in a beautiful way, in which I have my car, without strain or struggle, simple as that!!!-- Moreover, I had to humble myself towards God and His plan for me...I wasn't walking in faith, clearly, it was doubt in which I was trying to figure it all out by myself, like I'm super woman and not approaching God in prayer about His take (His plan of action) on this situation...Over the weekend I was able to deal with my spirit and self had to be corrected, in humility. Afterwards, my viewed cleared as time progressed, I thought about the situation, but it wasn't so bad in negative views, things begin to lighten up and by today, I accepted...PLEASE BE ADVISED: I am doing the same process that I did for my car, I made the decision and God has the details!! #AndThatsHowIBelieve that God will start working everything out...ALSO NOTE, I am effectively planning, reason being, I'm planning by faith, disregarding major details in which presumes doubt and the likeness I don't even know to handle, but I believe that God will work it all out, speedily, easily, and in my favor.

So, the learning experience toward success it consists of: applying faith, remaining humble to God (who is aware of all the in's and out's of you and your future), and staying positive... Don't let anything, anyone, or self get in the way of your image of a wonderful life (via success or whatever you envision for yourself that is good), your thought life is important, why? Remember: YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME THINGS!! MAKE YOUR THOUGHTS AMAZING, I SURE PLAN TOO!!


Till we converse again, peace, blessings and happy thoughts, my dear friends!!!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

If you do nothing else today...do this:

Change your thinking...I would have to say that I'm on a quest, journey, and better said MISSION to conquer and master my mind, yes the thinking thereof!!! I've come to realize that once we have a understanding of the power that lies within the mind or the subconscious (the bible would say the 'heart of man', etc etc), where all things first begin and the end thereof is determined, we will have, be, do, create, attain, etc etc anything we want and in the very same essence all God has DESIGNED and desired for us to have.

DESIGN is capitalized because its first important to note. God has DESIGNED everything in this world for us...it is our responsibility to take advantage and use that, that He has DESIGN for us...SIMPLE!! Desire wasn't capitalized, but it doesn't mean that it isn't important, but in this connotation desire from God is always and already present. He wants (desires) for us to have, be, do, etc etc to attain the best that this life has to offer but in the same breathe, HE HAS ALREADY DESIGNED IT FOR US!! It is our responsibility to use the DESIGN...And that DESIGN is also created within us, via our mind (subconscious and if you would oblige me to say the Spirit).

I'm learning about the mind, it is a harness of unadulterated power that God has given to us to master, seize, conquer...and to simply use in our everyday lives (you like the way that flow of words went, just like water from a sink, full pressure, that is eventually turned down to a simple, flow...)... So, I oblige you to take the time get a hold to your thinking...think positive, it relieves unnecessary stress in the midst of stressful times...Read positive things, center yourself around positive people, be thankful, enjoy life and love always...These few things and many more help with a positive thinking base or rather foundation. Think about what you want to have, do, be etc and believe with thanksgiving that Our God of this infinitely abundant universe, can do "What no other power can do" simply just for you....He loves you. He wants (desires) the Very best for you. He has already DESIGNED it to be so and that is found on the inside of you, waiting to be used and worked...

If you do nothing else today...do this: Change your thinking...Think and Think right!! God Bless You in your endeavors in life...

-TVCM-

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Today...

Today, is another day God has made for you and I. If you are reading this, I'm glad you made it through the storm, IRENE that is... I'm actually writing or posting rather, because I want to and then because I have some random thoughts...

Looking into numerology, astrology, etc I realize that one must be spiritually and mentally cognizant of there own lives FIRST. Those things may have good insight, BUT the God of all things knows the in's and out's of everything that constitutes who you were and what you will be. PLEASE BE ADVISED, that he gives us this life and we are responsible for taking full advantage of every 'inspired' opportunity that is presented to us.

In light of that, I have looked into numerology and I have looked into astrology and I've found that it has some truths or better said valuable insight, but if I were you, I would rely on God and you to make the final call on your life (present and future). NOTE, in the previous parentheses I put in only 'present' and 'future', reason being is because we are constantly passing from the past into the present all the time and we have a choice on how we make our future. Whether you believe it or not we do...God orchestrates life so that certain choices come to past and not others, but He does give us a responsibility to do and accomplish the good in our lives...

I'm learning now more than ever WE MUST TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY!!!! God, has placed soo much within us to do soo many great things, its true and Christ came into the world as a mere example of this truth. Through Christ we are saved and have the Holy Spirit on the inside to accomplish greater things and greater goods here on earth and He came so that we can be in right fellowship with the one and only and TRUE God!!

Therefore, soo great an opportunity to serve God by taking responsibility for our lives, the lives He's given us...to enjoy, to serve, to live, to love, to embrace, to share, to bring peace, to bring happiness, to bring joy, to bring forgiveness, to bring hope, to be and bring success, sooo much.

I therefore, advise you to seek wise counsel, those other things mentioned are cool and very unique but one true and living thing is God by way of the Holy Spirit that will lead and guide you into all truth how to make the best of your life and truly live it to the FULLEST!! Whatever you want you can have, honestly either good or bad its up to you...you choose...but be free and make the right decisions for YOUR life and know that there is a God that is there to help you come into the reality, the  TRUTH of what you need, want, and desire for your life... Let Him be in you and thru you, your life will never be the same...#IPROMISE

-TVCM-

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Hola!! Thought for the day...

I know I said I would probably post regularly...Alas, I lied...please forgive me!! Its been kind of busy but the mind hasn't stopped going, but its a good going, in a positive-upward direction, better said attitude.

This will be a short but sweet post and the thought that I've come to realize is that success, wealth, prosperity, longevity in life (health, relationships, friendships, etc) requires a plan and then action. You have the mind to plan and you have the ability to take action. God can and will orchestrate your life's moves and turns to follow into the right people, software, programs, etc so that you can reach your definite destined goal in life.

Remember, plan and then take action....as the mental work and spiritual efforts are in undertaking, that is the place where God moves...Enjoy life and take care!!! Peace and blessings to all!!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

"And another one"

Greetings Internet World!!! Its Me again and I'll probably post a couple times a day, so don't worry there is plenty of words, thoughts, ideals, etc in the recesses of my infinitely great mind :) I'm so inspired at this point in my life to achieve and become, its kind of scary!!! All I know is that I'm on my way to some place really Really REALLY BIG and its all being developed in the city of (not my soul) but my mind!!! It is true, "A Mind Is A Terrible Thing To Waste"...Therefore, DON'T WASTE IT!!! USE IT!!! DOG BLASTED!!! You have the power through your thoughts to change every aspect of your life..And you know what??? I BELIEVE THAT!! I'm going allow that to stick in my mind forEVER!!!

Blogging is like an "open diary" except, you (the blogger) know how much and what to give to the 'society at large', LOL!! But seriously, this is true!!! I actually need to write more in my journal...ANYWHO, the main objective of this post is to let you know of some future endeavors that I would like to present within and from this blog

This blog will focus on success in every area of life: mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, educationally, relationships, friendships, jobs/careers (paths), etc....we all must be holistic in our life and successfully holistic is the NAME OF MY GAME that I'm creating for my life, lifeline, and lifestyle!!! I plan to read books, articles; listen to audio (cd, mp3-4, wmv, etc), whatever tools that have helped or is currently helping me, I would like to submit (post) to you as means for you to experience the fullness of life that I'm currently and progressively undertaking and will soon forever live!! BTW, I mentioned in the last post that this blog is a means for me to be happy...and from my knowledge real happiness comes when you are willingly, freely, effortlessly giving of yourself to others out of love and for a greater good and cause, much more than yourself...I'm learning the path in giving. As time progress, my hope is that I become a giver (currently growing out of being selfish--#REALTALK #HONESTLY)...freely, willingly, etc from my heart, not expecting in return, but understanding through the law of attraction and the law of "sowing & reaping" I will receive my measure...GIVE BIG--RECEIVE BIG...give small--receive small....So, what's your logic?

WOW!!! that (that I just typed) just hit me in my face "GIVE BIG--RECEIVE BIG...give small--receive small"...MAN!! That just made me think about my life (Selah [pause in reflection of that reality])...PHEW!! Anyway, wow, man, ok I'm back!! Hitting the road to see the ppls and I speak and believe and receive and enjoyable/perfect day and vaca, taking it slow and enjoying life #InJCName #Amen

Before I leave, check this, in the book the secret, one of the ppl said "create your day"...So, what I do, is write in my journal, my day and how I want it to go...Ask In Faith, Believe, and Receive (in this word, go throughout the day 'acting' like its going to happen...live/walk in expectation and watch what you've asked come into fruition...#ITWORKS -- TRY IT AND SEE!!).

-BE BLESSED YALL-

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

I've been...

This is my first blog...I'm doing this to make me happy. You may ask, why blog to make you happy? Well, my answer would be because I want to and its another outlet for me to let out what I'm thinking and or feeling to people (hopefully) around the world...To continue on with my title "I've been..." in search of myself and I've come to a place where I've been enlightened!! My faith, my thought life...me and has been enlightened to reach my 'Infinite' potential!!! I want to be all I can imagine and all God desires for me to be and do!!!

I just (like about 20 mins ago) had a conversation with a guy that made me think of my dream job!!! Boy oh boy, I talked about that thang as if it were reality!! Earl Nightingale mentioned that success is this,"a progressive realization of a worthy ideal." Better said, "success is progress towards a definite goal"...Lord knows I have goals, some are indefinite but most are definite!!!

I've been reading the book called "The Secret"...it is #awesome!!! It has challenged me to really look at my life in a totally different angle...the angle from which I really need to look at that will bring me what??? SUCCESS!! By faith and applying the law of attraction (yes the law of attraction), once I changed my view or better said the way I was thinking in relation to getting my car, I ended up getting the car in only a few days!! Honestly!!! It still blew my mind but at the same time I had came to a place where I just believed that it was going to happen, like it was just natural!!! And that's the life I want to live, natural faith...second nature!!

The Secret is a powerful tool that you must apply with all intention and knowingness that God is going to give you what you have ask for. Many say that God is not a genie, He isn't just going to give you everything that you want, He'll only give you what you need...Well, I decided to believe the opposite that God is a genie, but He is a genie that works in the opsis of time and a being patient!! Therefore, if you want a million dollars, God can give it to you at any point and time, according to your faith, it will be done!! You can even want it at a particular time and according to your faith, it will be done!! BUT there are principles, laws or better said guidelines that we have to follow, luckily I'm finding they are very simple...1) ask, believe, and recieve; 2) move out on 'inspired' thought or action 3)be thankful FOR EVERYTHING & WHERE YOU ARE 'RIGHT NOW' 4)seek/pursue inner wholeness because you can have all the money, wealth, fortune, fame and NOT have wholeness...which only comes when you love/respect yourself and willing do the same for others and another principle would be to 6)Give (not sacrifice=which yields resentment) of yourself, either it be talents, finances, time, knowledge, love, mercy, whatever that is positive, uplifting, geniune, promoting someone over yourself willingly, do that , because in the end you will receive from it too....what you may ask? the very same you dealt to someone else, in soo many way you will receive it back, just don't expect it in the same form, receive all God wants you to have from His vast amounts of abundance, riches, wealth....#GoUNIVERSE!!!

I'm currently learning that principle and law have a definite place in life...everything floats, revolves, and is centered around principles/laws....science, humanitary devices, liberal devices, life, people. plants. animals, breathing, seeing, thinking, the body, emotions, everything...GRAVITY FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!! Its all centered around principle/laws!!! So, I'm learning to trully be happy (which is a process especially if you've had negative thoughts and thoughtlife for a majority of your life) and honestly be grateful about all things...and actually believe that I can live a life of abundance (that is a whole different blog that I'm going to talk about later)...so, I'm learning to be honestly positive and grateful!!! shiitake mushrooms, that is a process, but it's worth it for where I wanna go and become...So, until then....following 1-6!!!

The Secret